Posts by Belanie Dishong, Your Belief Changer
Have you ever felt the pain in giving?
Yesterday, during one of my weekly group coaching calls, one of my clients who is working on accepting appreciation from others shared this: “I made a cake for an event, and at the end of the day someone came up to me and told me how wonderful she thought the cake was. And I…
Read MoreThe Year My Turkey Had Cancer!
Imagine if you will…I’m a young adult, hosting my very first Thanksgiving. My whole family is en route to my home for Thanksgiving. I am so excited; I can’t wait to roll out this traditional southern Thanksgiving dinner. I just know Mom will be so proud of me. You must understand my mom was one…
Read MoreLove, Loss and Letting Go… To Love Again!
Have you ever lost a loved one? It can be devastating. What would it be like for you if you could be free to remember and experience the love you had for the person without the accompanying pain of the loss itself? Are you living in the experience of loss or the experience of…
Read MoreYour world is made up of the words you choose to use! Change your world…change your words.
Today was just one of THOSE days. You know we all have them once in a while. It was a day that appreciation was lost in the jungle of things just not working. Started off with my network going down…called for help…help arrives. Soon to discover that it’s a far bigger problem, can’t be fixed…
Read MoreReflections
It is during this season that I reflect upon what I have accomplished, see where I maybe missed the mark, give gratitude for all that I have, get blown away by all the things that I have seen, shared, sometimes endured yet come through and the many joys that I had. Throughout each year,…
Read MoreTired of Trying to Prove That You Are Valuable?
Do you sometimes feel like you are always having to prove to others that you have value? I hear over and over from couples how they don’t feel like they are appreciated by their partners. Children and teens are constantly feeling that no one hears them, nothing they have to say matters, and most of…
Read MoreLetting Go Of The Resistance.
As I cultivate my state of being an appreciator, I am acutely aware of a greater state of connection with others and the results it produces. In my choice to know, first and foremost, that everything has great value, I am no longer resisting people nor the circumstances around me. Appreciation is a state of…
Read MoreSome Facts on Appreciation!
Some Facts On Appreciation! Appreciation has an energy all it’s own. This energy has a vibration. All life is energy and all energy has a vibration frequency. All things material, solid or immaterial (thoughts and feelings) all have vibration. It’s easy and acceptable for us to relate to the vibration of music. One…
Read MoreMy Dad Once Said…
There was never a more precious man than my dad. One of the things that was great about him was he loved to come to my home and “fix stuff.” It always seemed that he just came at the right time and there was always something to be fixed. He would drive for about…
Read MoreWhat Are We Sacrificing?
As I have continued to ponder the possibilities of appreciation I have come to look at people during their everyday life with a new awareness. People are really hurting out there due to the lack of appreciation. Last week I was on a flight to Florida to speak at a conference and I had…
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