Vacation or Just Sick Time?

I could hardly wait for this past week off. It has been planned and I have been looking forward to it for two months. I was to spend one whole week in Santa Fe in a beautiful home, and that week was just for me and 2012 business reflection.

 

I did not plan to be so sick I couldn’t get out of the lovely bed in this beautiful home the entire week. What started as a sinus infection in October hung on and never really went away. Now I am in the process of healing from pneumonia and bronchitis. And as if that wasn’t enough, I threw in conjunctivitis.

 

As I lay here coughing and coughing some more, I had plenty of time to think. And I think many of the women in my life suffer from overcommitment like I do. We are so driven for our causes and passions that we miss the point altogether: to enjoy life. As I move forward, recovered and committed to family, friends, Live At Choice and my clients, I promise this:

 

I am in inquiry about what I cannot see that has me make choices that put me in illness rather than choices that have me celebrate my passions, care for others and CARE FOR SELF. I move forward with a commitment to be healthy.

 

I ask that all you incredibly powerful women join me in this commitment to self care.  One thing I do not want is to pass this lack of self care on to the young women who follow us. Will you join me on this journey?

2 Comments

  1. Melody Bizego on November 19, 2012 at 11:58 pm

    Thank you for sharing such an intimate and .sincere message

    I’d like to join you in that in quiry…. Tell me when and where and I will be there

    • Belanie Dishong on November 21, 2012 at 11:12 am

      Melody, thanks for your comment. There are a couple of things you can do. You can follow my blog as I share my own progress to self care. Also I am thinking of providing a women’s retreat this spring for the purpose of self discovery for self care. If you are interested in this retreat please let me know. I believe we, as women do not NATURALLY gravitate to self care! We have decided we are the world’s savior and we drop self out along the way.

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