The Live at Choice Blog

I feel it very important in these times of unrest, anger, death, and blaming that I bring the reminder of why we are have a 3-Day Holiday, Special Department Store Sales, BBQ’s and Cookouts, and family gatherings. It truly is for the purpose of honor, remembrance, and thank you for those who so selflessly gave…

If you have 3 or more thoughts a day that you wish you could stop thinking.  Then keep on reading.  If you don’t have 3 or more thoughts a day that you wish you could stop thinking…then consider yourself darn lucky. Listen, you probably feel all alone in that mind of yours, chattering away at…

There are hundreds of things to be grateful for and yet there is one area that I find is missing its due gratitude. The reason it is missing gratitude is because of your mindset about it. I believe each of us are pretty thankful for the money we have, our families, our health, our food,…

During the Unpainted Picture Advanced Course Event we talked about “your ripple effect.” I am pretty certain that most people don’t pay a lot of attention to the vast impact they have in the world. One smile, one kind word, one share, one gift … all create a ripple effect. I call this the Power…

I changed my mind and so can you.  I used to think that the best way to have something be different in my life, was to change my mind or just make an exit; bail out of circumstances I didn’t like.  I never realized I could “literally change my mind.”  I mean, change the way…

I figured it out.  I truly believe that we are all gifted.  I also believe that we all receive the same amount of possibility.  What I have been puzzled with for many years is why does it seem that people often feel they are lacking something?  Some piece of something that others have, but they…

It’s true that most of the time when you aren’t getting things handled, it’s because you can’t seem to Get Out Of Your Own Way! I have spent a lot of years coming up with the solutions for getting out of your own way.  I thought I would share some of what I have come…

I need to change my life.  Yet, I am afraid!  I hear this over and over.  I find that most people know they aren’t happy but they really don’t know what to do to change it.  Also, to even complicate things more, the mere thought of change can be fearful.  So when you know you…

Have you ever walked away from a date and said to yourself, that was just OK, or that wasn’t much fun?  “How to have fun dates” has some hidden secrets.  One thing that I always notice is there are so many things people do that rob them of the fun they could have had. First…

Stuck in a job, Stuck in a bad relationship, Stuck because you don’t know what to do, Stuck cuz you don’t know the answers?  Stuck, stuck, stuck.  If I have heard that once I have heard it a million times.  And that’s not even counting the times over my life that I have said the same…