The Live at Choice Blog

Never give up on you.  No matter the circumstances there is always one more grander version of you waiting to be discovered.  It’s all about the discovery not the how that reveals the champion within! - Belanie Dishong

Step 1 to Stop the Busyness and Start Being

Much time has been spent in the creation of the moments for Christmas Day.  All of which generally falls into the realm of doing.  For some, it may have been effortful, and for others, not so effortful.  And as you step back, take a breath, and see that all the doingness that could be done…

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8 Best Ways I Know to Chill Out – And Reduce Holiday Stress

8  Best Ways to Chill Out – And Reduce Holiday Stress   I decided this year to find all the ways possible for me to Chill…Reduce Holiday Stress… just have the holidays be FUN!  I have spent most of my adult life with a huge focus on things being perfect: decorations, parties, gifts, wrappings, and…

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It’s Hard To Be Without Them During the Holidays

by Guest Author, Brian Berry-Berlinski, Live At Choice Starfisher Coach     Holidays are times when family and friends gather and create new memories.  Then there comes the time when you lose one of your loved ones.   I remember our first Christmas without my grandmother.  For me, she played the role of a second mom,…

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I Thought It Was For You!

In my most recent post titled “When The Holidays Aren’t Fun” I truly thought I was creating something that would be a gift for each of you.  The exercise was to let you know that you can change your perspective on life’s circumstances at any moment.  Just by stopping and reconnecting with something you have…

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When The Holidays Aren’t Fun

There are many things that can seem to steal the joy from holidays.  Sometimes it’s people you dread being around, the commercialism, stress in trying to get it all done, money worries, or the feeling of being alone.  Whatever happened to the joy you felt as a child around the holidays?  That’s a good question…

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Recreate Your Thoughts Around Fear and Money

  By Roseanne Peña, Live At Choice Starfisher   When I started out in my career, my goals were personal satisfaction and to make the kind of money that would support my dreams. But my fears got in the way.   My youthful aspirations were to be “top dog” — a director, vice president, or…

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Been Too Busy For Me

All of us have long “to do” lists, daily demands, and busy agendas. Have you ever noticed that YOU are the last priority on your agenda?     Finally, I can now say I am free to put myself on my own agenda (read my latest blog on Self Care called “Vacation or Just Sick…

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Vacation or Just Sick Time?

I could hardly wait for this past week off. It has been planned and I have been looking forward to it for two months. I was to spend one whole week in Santa Fe in a beautiful home, and that week was just for me and 2012 business reflection.   I did not plan to…

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Creating New Powerful Relationships

  I never would have guessed that I would meet an awesome new “girlfriend.” but things always work out exactly they way they are suppose to.   One thing I always do before I take on a project, attend an event or even start my day is write my creations statements, declarations of things to…

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Have you ever felt the pain in giving?

  Yesterday, during one of my weekly group coaching calls, one of my clients who is working on accepting appreciation from others shared this: “I made a cake for an event, and at the end of the day someone came up to me and told me how wonderful she thought the cake was.  And I…

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